good morning everybody how you doing today jr
fisher i have a different background today don't i i've got a story to tell you everybody don't
forget to uh subscribe hit the subscribe button down there don't forget to ring the bell ding ding
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are subscribed i want to make sure that you are turning on notifications and i'll tell you why
there's a bed behind me in just a second today is going to be a cool day this whole week with the
exception of friday because i'm traveling friday but monday through saturday exception friday
i'm going to be going live and i'll be showing you how to start a successful business online i
think it's gonna be very useful i do apologize for my lighting i do apologize for what it looks
like behind me right now but let me explain to you why okay because i said i would uh my son
had undergone i guess a minor surgery in ohio uh and they botched it uh and it caused him
some serious complications uh they operated on him again day before yesterday uh thank you
so much paul let me know that you can hear me uh and um he's uh recuperating now and i am now
at the cleveland clinic which is where he is a patient and he actually works here too uh and i'm
staying at the intercontinental here uh right on the campus of the cleveland clinic to take care
of my boy my boy is actually 27 years old but he's still my boy uh his wife had to go to work uh
so somebody's got to be here to take care of him and nurse him back to health so that's my job
so that's what i'm doing that's why i have this bracelet right here that's why you see a hotel
room behind me uh but i didn't want to leave you guys out and just leave you for the entire week
because i'm going to be here for the whole week so get used to this i don't know if i can find a
different angle or something if you've got some other ideas let me know i have a window here in
front of me so it's left in some beautiful light and you know a lot of people say well my gosh
you should be so upset they botched his operation uh and he's in a lot of pain and uh really a
near-death type thing uh happened to him um but i'm not because he's not uh he he's
alive and he made it through it and i was able to talk to him this morning uh
and it was it was pretty serious stuff uh and it's a good thing because today i
want to kind of talk to you a little bit about your attitude as you start this online
business your attitude is going to be critical to you getting through now i will tell you nobody
sat me down when i started my business and said hey you're going to run into a lot of crap you're
going to have a lot of problems things are going to go bad wrong and they did they went bad wrong
many times when i was growing my business nobody sat me down and said but you're going to
need to be positive uh they didn't need to and here's why they didn't need to because the
alternative for me was to go back to my old job the alternative for me was to go back to my
old boss uh who was a drug addict alcoholic uh yeah he was a very accomplished person very
wealthy person but not somebody i respected so that was the motivation that i needed uh paul says
prayers for speedy recovery brother i thank you so much he's going to be here at least several days
they did some real damage to him uh in the first operation and uh repairing that damage uh yeah
it's gonna it's gonna take some work but you know what he's alive and i'm really glad about that
you know he's one of my best friends i love my son uh so i'm here to take care of him it's okay
uh good morning how's your son uh tien i was just talking about that they did a botched surgery
on him they actually sewed part of his intestine uh to his stomach wall accidentally when they
were doing a hernia operation which caused his uh bowels to block um and uh they didn't know it
and they weren't going in to operate to fear why and um yeah it was getting really bad because if
it had split i could have you know gone into his entire system and killed him uh but fortunately
they went in and they said oh my gosh we uh we made a incision problem uh and we sewed up your
intestines accidentally to your stomach uh not a good thing not a good thing but anyhow they
detached it um he's got tubes down his nose and all this kind of stuff uh still not able to eat
or any of that but that's not our subject today our subject today is being positive so that's
what i'm going to talk about and that's why you see the hotel room behind me because i'm here with
him uh trying to nurse him back to health which i can do i've done it i was a single dad i raised
him by myself so i think i can do this too so why do you go negative first off i mean why is
it that our brains and guys understand this is about growing your business online this is about
building your business online but if i neglect this area if i neglect explaining to you
why you need to change your brain and you can change your brain my brain is not the way it
used to be years ago you can reprogram your brain anybody can do this okay but it's a good idea
to look at why your brain automatically seems to look at the world through a negative lens
okay now according to loretta brenning of the inner mammal institute she says chemistry
hurts okay our body is made up of chemicals some are good some are not so good but
chemicals such as dopamine serotonin oxytocin all fall within the category of happy
okay so we have these happy things right now chemicals uh and they create these senses
of pleasure or satisfaction our body releases in short spurts only which are metabolized quickly so
this pushes us to keep seeking a way to stimulate these chemicals we shouldn't be happy all the time
but we should always be motivated to go be happy okay and i think we all have experienced that we
always want to be happy but we're not always happy on the opposite end of the spectrum is
control okay and you need those things too it's a chemical that surges um to connect
the neurons in your brain at a single moment causing the feeling of pain and it's effective
okay it motivates you to focus on the cause of the release and work to make it stop okay so
we we need those those feelings too unfortunately this comes at the cost of not noticing much else
except the solution to stop the main the pain or the discomfort so i don't want to get too
deep into this but i'm going to get a little bit deep into it because i think it's important
uh tyann says oh ouch hope they get it right soon uh sepsis is very scary yes he did not get sepsis
but it was it was going in that direction uh let's see here i think it's important to remember
the serenity prayer create an environment for positive start by getting negative stock or
start by getting negative people i think you've been getting rid of negative people but anyhow
we are surrounded by triggers so our ancestors were surrounded by dangers and so are we albeit
different strains of danger right while they may have had to worry about wild animals we are
more worried about the disappointment of failure and that really kind of takes over our brain
especially if we're trying to do a business or we're trying to do something new either way your
brain learns what to associate with good and what to associate with bad and you've trained your
brain over the years you may not have mentioned okay now we're going to change that we're going
to change that brain our brains learn from pain your mind remembers what triggers that shot of
cortisol it learns to scan for that trigger this is necessary to help us avoid dangers and it's
you know it's self-preservation we haven't have to have this but it also means that the brain focuses
on negatives that we come across on a daily basis it always does that it's always going to turn
to the negative someone who is allergic to bees will consistently be scanning for bees makes sense
right so they may not notice the beautiful patch of flowers that surround the bees okay they may
not notice that or how pretty a bee actually is the difficulty of being social we are inherently
social species which brings its own set of difficulties now i know a lot of people will say
well i'm not i'm an introvert i don't like being around people i'm uncomfortable around people
that's because you've programmed your brain that way i used to be that way i was that introverted
person we are consistently comparing ourselves to others we do it all day long i don't care if it's
clothing i don't care if it's age i don't care if it's intelligence i don't care if it's money
we're constantly doing this we don't mean to but we do it okay which leads to a constant
back and forth of serotonin and cortisol when our brain sees that we are in a position
of weakness it is processed faster meaning we then need to try again for the social reward
okay there's a social reward out there there's this flip-flop to this we also need social
support our brain seeks safety in the herd and releases oxytocin when we find safety and social
support now this is dangerous for a business this is dangerous because the majority of
the people out there aren't going to be aren't going to be accomplishing what you want to
accomplish okay so we need to do it differently we need to change things differently when we move
away from the hard uh and safety okay excuse me when we move away from the herd and all that
safety um and or or when the hurt itself is threatened it releases cortisol in alarm okay
it says oh my god there's this big problem so your brain is sending mixed signals and you may
feel safe in the herd and get oxytocin but at the same time you'll find yourself in a position of
weakness releasing the cortisol this will cause mixed feelings and you can lead to anxiety and
social settings and we've all experienced anxiety i just want you to know how it comes about so
what we have to do is we have to retrain our brain the good news is that you can retrain your brain
to look for positives in everyday life and we have to do that my son's in the hospital
here he had a near-death experience really but i'm positive because yesterday was my birthday
i traveled all day yesterday for my birthday but how exciting is it that i got to see my son that
something horrible didn't happen to him okay there are a few methods to try and i want you to
choose one or try all of them i'm going to give you several things to do and yes this is important
to growing your business online guys this is so important because if i don't get your brain
right you're not going to make it through all the obstacles you need to make it through to have a
business online uh let's see here uh let's see i'm to the point that if people are always negative
or spouting off conspiracy theories constantly i will unfollow if it's family and unfriendly for
others uh i don't want more of that junk around me and that's very true guys you've got to think
about what do you put in your brain every day whatever you put in your brain every day you're
training it if you're watching horror movies every day if you're watching murder mysteries every
day if you're watching terrible news every day it's going to hurt you i'm telling you it's going
to hurt you i have a really good friend who's a plastic surgeon and has been for years very
positive guy has a great family very accomplished person and if you walked up to him and said
what's happened in the news he couldn't tell you you know he told me one day he says i
haven't listened to the news in years and i said why not he says because it's not
positive and there's nothing i can do about it and you know that's a really good reply the news
is not positive it's never going to be positive there's a line in the news and it goes like this
if it bleeds it leads so the more horrible it is the more they're going to push that story
because people gravitate towards those stories it's because your brain is wired that way so
here's what i want you to do i want you to create what i'm going to call a positivity circuit
three times a day every day every single day okay somebody spam right every single day spend one
minute looking around specifically for positives how often do you do this how often you go you know
what this is not a bad hotel room you know what my son is alive you know he went through a really
terrible experience but he's alive uh you know what i got a great wife at home how often do you
do that this helps you retrain your brain making it look for positives in the same way that it
may right now be looking for negatives now there was a dr bruning and she recommended that you do
this for 45 minutes now there's really no reason to stop after that right if you if
you're doing it for 45 minutes how about you say well guys i don't have time to sit
there and look for positive things every day really why not look for positive things all day
long start off with three times a day at a minute and then grow it grow it to where you're a
positive person because that's what we're trying to get to because if we can get to that
when these negative things happen to you when your business isn't doing well when you're not
selling what you want to sell when you're not getting the traffic you want when you don't have
as many opt-ins your brain is going to switch to what's positive about this what is positive
about this and you're going to build on that now the next thing i'll tell you is let people
know that you are recognizing positives no matter how recent they are this could be taking a minute
and saying thank you to the co-worker that helped you with the project it could mean digging
up an old mentor such as a college professor high school teacher and thanking them for advice
they may have given you that you now use every day you know i went to dinner the other night with
something i hadn't seen since i was 18 years old and i let him know how he affected me he was a
really cool person he was very talented he got in some trouble we won't talk about that but we
all did when we were kids um but the thing is he he's had a positive impact on the world and
become very successful the next thing i'm going to tell you is i want you to learn to pivot
okay if you find yourself thinking negatively i want you to stop stop it and think about where
you would find yourself if you turn 180 degrees what if you stopped what you were doing what if
you stopped that thought process okay what would happen what would happen so for the longest time
people didn't clean up after their pets okay so there was a dog poop everywhere now that it is
common for people to pick up after their dogs we don't think about the fact that we aren't you
know dodging dog poop every day and we don't step and poop we do however notice when people fail to
pick it up and often trigger some type of outrage when i was a kid nobody picked up dog poop they
didn't do it okay you just stepped in it every now and then and you live with it okay and it wasn't
a big deal to you they would they would put out their cigarettes and throw them on the ground it
was just common practice instead of getting mad and focusing on the negatives the dog poop that is
there think about the positives focus on the fact that 99 of the people are picking up after their
dogs now they didn't do that when i was a kid okay the next thing i'm going to tell you i want you
to do and i want you to practice all these things because tomorrow we're digging into this business
thing but i want your head right i really do guys without this without this you're not going to
succeed if you don't get your brain right this is what's been preventing you from succeeding before
i'm telling you this is the stuff right here we've all heard about that that pay it forward
moments you know at starbucks or mcdonald's or something like that but you don't need to shell
out money to the fast food chains to achieve this just perform small acts of kindness that will
help other people helping others make them feel good say thank you help them out let them in front
of you in line you know i i for years i would get so upset when somebody cut me off in traffic and
then about three years ago it's taken me that long yeah for all those years i got upset about three
years ago i said you're going to let everybody in every person that wants to get in front of you
you're going to let them in okay every single time it doesn't matter if they're going too slow
it doesn't matter if they're driving erratically you're going to let everybody in you can't imagine
how liberating that was for me i don't i don't get mad at anybody anymore when they drive bad
and then i have a justification in my brain if somebody does drive poorly
here's what i say to myself i say of course they're supposed to drive poorly they're
not good drivers of course and here's something else i'll say to myself if they look like they
just cut me off and they were very rude they were speeding i'm like gee i wonder if they've got
somebody in the hospital that they're racing to i wonder if they've got an emergency emergency
that's happened in their life i wonder if a loved one just left them or they got fired from their
job man i feel sorry for those people that's the way i look at drivers now that's the way i look
at drivers and you know what you can say well jr that's not always true some of the times it
actually is some of the times it actually is imagine you get mad at somebody and you curse them
out you flip them off because they cut you off and they're actually racing to the hospital
because one of their loved ones is in the hospital and was in a car accident or fell down or whatever
the case may be imagine that you did that right that doesn't make you feel too good does it
next thing i'm going to tell you is take care of yourself your health can impact your outlook
your health does impact your outlook actually if you're eating well you're sleeping well
you're exercising appropriately uh and i i exercise i exercise probably four or five days a
week i was just down there talking to my son i was also like flexing i'm like oh look at me you know
i'm 62 years old and i can do x number of things i do 170 push-ups now i do 170.
Now that's not
that's not 2 000 like david goggins but for me you know at my age it's okay i'm going to work
my way up to 200. i want to be able to do 200 you know when i do my push-ups i do them every
minute or in a minute until i hit that number and i usually do it for 12 13 minutes so that's
what i do i take care of myself um this isn't an old wives tale okay while they they haven't really
pinpointed the exact reason why this happens but universities such as john hopkins and the
university of kansas have noted the link there is a link take an honest critical look at how you
treat your body and what you put in it what are you eating how are you sleeping are you exercising
you must exercise you can eat the healthiest you want and you can take all the medicine you want
but if you don't exercise the muscles in your body will deteriorate and if they deteriorate it's
going to affect you mentally and heck if you just look in the mirror and you don't look good
that's going to affect you mentally isn't it and let me check my time here i'm doing good i'm
holding 10 19.
Um the next thing you want to do is release that inner negativity that you have
center your thoughts around things that make you happy okay you want to do that uh helping
to direct your mind towards positive things constant negativity and habitual skepticism
will influence your decisions and keep you in a constant negative loop look at the automotive
industry for years they said you can't make an electric car that's viable you just can't it
won't go far enough the technology's not there elon musk came along and said bull i think you can
and when he did it everybody started copying him okay but they all had that negative outlook
uh and as i sit here right now guys i'm at the cleveland clinic i'm watching an emergency
helicopter come into the hospital and who knows what's happened somebody's had something
bad happen in their life if you don't have an emergency helicopter you know racing towards you
or one of your family members you should be happy what is it going to take to be happy and that's
another question i ask people what's it going to take and i want to i want to cover that a little
bit more in just a second uh let's see having survived a stroke i'm grateful for every breath i
take i try to pass that positive attitude by just saying thank you and have a nice day paul that's
awesome thank you for doing that you make the world better um paul also says thanks uh hit me up
on facebook or messenger uh i'll do that uh tyen says okay good uh oh okay you were replying to uh
uh paul tyam was she says hey paul uh where would you find the softest and best sweatshirts for
pod okay they're doing some work here that's a good tyen says i'm a sucker for murder mysteries
yes try to find positive and mundane every day we need to learn that we are too blessed to
be stressed uh in living with the attitude of gratitude all these things are
good guys and as you say these things as you bring these to the forefront of your brain
you're training your brain you're doing it okay so i want you to let it go let the negativity go
stop letting negative things drag you down and limit your potential my watch keeps hitting me
up here uh it does it does limit your potential control your thoughts you aren't controlling your
thoughts you're the only one that's in control of your thoughts centering on things that make
you happy if you do that if you start feeling frazzled or stressed or distracted calm your
mind slow down even pause what you're doing take a moment and get into the reality of what's
around you you know you may be worried about what's going to happen or what did happen stop
and look around you know i'm sitting in a nice hotel room is it the nicest hotel room i've ever
been to no is it is it kind of dated yeah should i concentrate on that no i've got air conditioning
i've got light i've got electricity i've got health i've got clothes on my body my son's doing
well you could focus on whatever you want but if you can't be happy in your moment right now
when will you be happy when will you be happy okay if not only for a moment stop and be positive
clear your mind of all these negative thoughts then get moving again on the right foot do what
you're supposed to be doing bring positivity into the moment every chance you got by practicing this
mindfulness of this moment we're in this moment how many of you actually stop and think about the
moment you're in uh and make a habit of this you stop your subconscious mind from doing the driving
because your subconscious mind if you don't drive your mind your subconscious will and it's going
to base it on bad experiences okay it's not going to base it on good stuff i'm telling you you've
got to control this having your conscious mind drive your decisions will help you focus on
your thoughts towards more positive balance approach okay a great way to do this is by
asking yourself questions okay and here's some of the questions i want you to ask yourself
i think that are super important okay number one what can i do right now that will give me joy what
can i do right now now i decided at nine o'clock central daylight time it's actually ten o'clock
here in um a little past ten in cleveland ohio i decided talking to you guys would make me
happy and it does it makes me happy when i get a chance to talk to you guys it makes me very
happy what am i grateful for at this moment ask yourself that question right now and actually
answer these as we're talking answer these i'm grateful that i had a safe flight here
i'm grateful that all my luggage got here uh my son's violin is over there from high
school he's 27 now and he asked me to bring his violin uh and i bet he's gonna be grateful
for that i'm grateful that i could bring it here and it didn't get lost or stolen okay so many
bad things can happen that don't happen to us and yet we forget about all the good things
that happen to us that we aren't thankful for is there something i can do to give someone
else happiness right now what can i do you know i met a couple people in the hallway um i i had
somebody brought me some food last night and i did what i could to make them happy i mean the room
service person i said is the tip already included uh and she says yes it's already included i'm
like well let me give you a little extra tip because i used to have to work room service i
used to have to carry stuff up to people's rooms she goes oh my gosh it's nice to meet somebody
who actually was in the service industry i said i started off washing dishes when i was 15 i was
a dishwasher i appreciate that person in the back of the kitchen that's washing my dishes so that i
can have a nice clean plate do you appreciate that do you appreciate that or you just when you find
a dirty dirty plate you get upset what is it is there something you can do to make somebody
else feel good ask yourself that question now ask yourself this question how can i demonstrate
my gratitude how can i express gratitude on a daily basis by retraining your brain to go
positive instead of negative you can change your outlook on life entirely now if you change
your outlook on life you will change your success you will change your success and you'll be
able to handle your failures you will feel better and you will likely see improvements in
your social and your professional life this is not just for business but i want you to use it
for business right now it's going to help you in your personal life too okay as i said before
there have been numerous studies on the effects of positivity with the effects of positivity
ranging from improved immune response hey there's there's that that illness out there
i'm not supposed to say what it is but there's that illness out there maybe just being positive
could protect you from that in that reason enough all right um so also if you do get sick you you
tend to get better quicker when you're positive now it may seem negative to tell you you won't
see changes overnight because you won't it's not going to happen overnight but that's simply
reality you're fighting against centuries of bread instincts that evolve chemical systems in
your brain you can change these chemicals guys but you will see the changes over time and you will
be able to train your brain to look for positives in life if you do the things i talked
about today and i wanted to spend some time on this today guys because you know
right now i'm surrounded with situations okay my birthday i could i could [ __ ] and say oh
my gosh for my birthday i had to be on an airplane flying to cleveland you know what how grateful am
i that i could afford to go and see my son in the hospital how grateful am i that i can be here
to help him out how grateful am i that i could afford to sit in first class and stretch my legs
out there was a time i couldn't do that you know but if i was sitting in coach i should be grateful
for that too i should be grateful because i've got another day to do this stuff guys and if you get
your mind wrapped around what i've told you today tomorrow when we start working on your business
more and more and more and you run into problems which you will run into problems you're going
to be able to handle them you're going to be able to find solutions to the problems you're
going to be able to do better at your business because you've trained your brain and you've got
to keep training your brain it can go negative at any point right my wife and i talk about it all
the time and we try to be really super positive people and we pretty much are she wasn't this
positive when i first met her and it was because of her brain training but she's changed it over
the years and i constantly try to improve on mine let me let me see what you guys been saying
here i like how you keep an uncluttered workspace i think your space contributes to mindset both
positive and negative yeah i don't believe in paper okay i don't like paper i think it's bad for
the environment uh i lose stuff on paper i don't write well on paper i don't write well period and
my handwriting's not that great i try to hurry and then when i try to hurry i can't read the writing
um and then i tend to stack it up so i'm allowed one spot in my house where i have a little bit
of paperwork and it's behind this cubby and our butler pantry uh butler pantry that sounds
so funny but that's what is part of the house and in the butler pantry i have a little stack of
paper stuff i've got to handle uh but i don't like to have all the clutter and paperwork everywhere
i just don't it's not something i like to have um fall is one of those seasons for reflection
and calming yourself in nature yes it is fall is definitely good for that and so is winter so it's
spring and so is summer don't wait for a season though that's a good point you made i think it's
a great point and and now that we're in fall if you want to start now start now but if you
miss fall you know you can do it in the winter and if you miss winter you can do it in the spring
but gosh you got to do it you got it you've got to be thankful oh my gosh i can't tell you how
that has changed my success in life by just being thankful of other people when i go into a room of
people who are really good at digital marketing i don't go into that room and go let me see who
i get to help me out let me see who i can learn something from i go into that room and go what can
i do for somebody else in this room and not ask for anything in return how often does your brain
go in that direction mine automatically goes in that direction now automatically when i see people
who are strangers now it automatically goes to i hope they're having a good day maybe i can
make it a little bit better okay it's not uh they aren't doing the job great or they aren't good
at this or they aren't good at that or you know i didn't like this meal it tries to go positive
because my brain is trained that way now and it makes me happy makes me smile when i was a kid
i never smiled i got in trouble i got in fights and got involved in drugs you name it i you know
arrested all that good stuff but i was always negative and that's what i attracted was all these
negative things and now i seem to attract good luck everywhere i go everywhere i go it doesn't
mean i don't want problems it doesn't mean that you know things don't happen in my life you
know my son's in the hospital right now and i'm trying to nurse him back to health but
he's gonna be fine he said he's a tough guy um let's see here i think every person who
worked in food service appreciate the stress of service workers yeah that was very helpful to
me because i was a i was a bus boy i was a waiter i was a dishwasher i was a salad prep person
i was a saute person in the kitchen i was a bartender i was a banquet bartender i did i did a
lot of food service stuff uh and you learn to um appreciate how hard those people really do
work um i love that you make time to keep time in touch with positive people like your older
buddy in san diego oh yeah luigi's awesome how you doing about luigi luigi's like 80.
he just turned 87 uh he went to uh paris uh and i got to get back in touch with him cause
i talked to him right before he went to paris true every season has its perks but it feels best
for different things yes uh and all i'm saying is don't wait when i say that tie in whatever
whatever season you pick is it's perfect it's perfect it's all perfect whatever you do guys
i'm gonna leave you with that today is perfect whatever you do is perfect let's say you did
something and it wasn't up to par of what you wanted you did what you could with what you had
give yourself credit you know if you give yourself credit and you do good with what you have that's
all you can expect of yourself that's it you can't expect any you can't expect more than what you
can do okay i can't expect to do 2 000 push-ups right now i can't do it well i do it one day i
don't know i don't know if i'll work towards that but the point is i'm happy with my
170 right now i'm good with that i'm very good with that i'm very happy about that
i'm happy that i can walk into my son's you know hospital room and say hey your dad is getting up
in years but i'm still in good shape still healthy because i work on it it's not because it was
given to me i work really hard on that do i screw up yes of course do i eat crappy food of
course i do but not all the time do i overeat sometimes but not all the time not all the time
i will say my friend from um uh high school uh he had had a heart attack uh he has stints in and you
know he ate a meal he probably shouldn't have the other night now there's nothing wrong with that he
ate a rack of ribs uh and i had a piece of salmon but i've been there where i ate some
ribs too but when i do eat that bad food try this one guys when you do eat that bad
food try to just eat a small amount of it don't eat the whole cake eat a sliver of cake
right eat a small portion of that steak you know cut it down a little bit just do that
if you do that you're going to be okay and please when you leave this training today
matter of fact if you would put something positive that you're thankful for today i want
everybody to do that that's listening to this in the chat section if you're listening live put
something that you're positive about put something that you're grateful for just matter of fact put
two or three things if you could everybody do that even if you're not watching this live let's say
you're watching you know the recording of this put it in the comments section this isn't just for
me this is for you because when you write it down when you express it when you share it with
the world it's going to come back to you it'll come back to you you're also starting to
train your brain because before you watch this video today you weren't going to do that you
weren't going to do that which means your brain was going to go negative at some point during the
day because it's trained to do so you're right for eons that's what your brain is
trained to do we're trying to change that and if you notice the people who do really
well in life and i keep pulling out elon musk he's a very positive person very very positive he
sees bad things in the world he sees that we're overpopulated but instead of freaking out over
it he's like let's get some other planets going he tries to find a solution to that that may be
a bizarre thought for some of you out there but he has a brain that sees negative and chooses
not to accept it how is your brain operating have you put down positive things in the uh chat
here have you done it have you done what i said are you gonna do it if you're watching this
is a recording will you put it in the comments are you gonna decide to change that's up to
you i can't i can't control that let's see i had uh the queen's within what's going on i had
terrible job experiences however the worst bosses i had taught me the best lessons either directly
or indirectly yes yes you know when i quit my job and i went to do online marketing um the person
that just drove me out of there the person i just really despised uh and he did pass away actually
uh drank himself to death or drugged himself to death i don't know what it was uh but if he
hadn't been like that i would have stayed in that job if he was a great boss he was a
nice guy and i would have just had a mediocre income you know you know i say mediocre i earned
decent money but i would have never earned what i earned now never if he hadn't been that way so
i thank him i thank him for treating me poorly i thank him that was a genuine blessing in disguise
that he treated me poorly because look where i am now i wouldn't be here if it wasn't for that
negative individual okay uh let's see here i want to read some of this you guys
are awesome focus on the positive uh and make the most of what you have yes this
is from the queen is within avoid negative people and that's why you keep your business to
yourself the only people that need to know are the ones who give solutions very nice paul
grateful for my wife well you must really love your wife you talk about her a lot that's
awesome i got to meet her um and family plus the fact that i live in a land that anyone
can pursue their dreams hey yeah i mean guys if you're in america you're super lucky you've
got no excuses uh but there's a lot of countries out there that you should be very grateful for we
don't we all have the only country that's got you know possibilities and opportunities you know
every every place you are in the world there's something there for you if you decide to use
it um i keep a daily gratitude journal do you really james you're a very positive person uh
he says plea peace and blessings everyone always uh taiyan says thankful for the greening
of things and cleansing fall reigns yeah that's pretty cool right uh it's pretty cool
stuff and i'm very thankful for that stuff too uh the color feels uh are just colors and
fields are just my favorite in the fall that is really nice yes and i'm looking out over
a big forest here behind the the cleveland clinic uh and i'm looking out over all these buildings
that are helping people and getting people well and that's amazing uh lessons are learned in every
job some let you know that you were not meant for that nasty job yeah that's very true guys i want
to thank you for being here today if you haven't subscribed please do so uh ring the bell this is
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daylight time i want you guys to stick with me join me participate this could be a life-changing
week for you it really could if you let it be if you let it be it could be a life-changing
week but it really truly is up to you don't blame anybody else don't expect anybody else to do
stuff for you i want you to be the driving force i want you to be the one who goes out in the world
why not you go out and affect other people's lives in a positive way why not you make the difference
stop waiting for somebody else to be the one you be the one you be the one that people are grateful
for you be the one who at the end of the day says i'm glad i met this person i'm glad i talked to
this person i'm glad i associate with this person this person was awesome you be that person uh i
think i'm the queen's wisdom says i'm thankful that i am of sound mind and body and i have the
knowledge and mindset to keep on pushing i'm grateful for family and the fact that i can wake
up today thankful to be here very nice prayers for your son again brother thank you so much paul
he's he is talking today uh he hasn't eaten in days because he can't he still has a tube down his
nose but they're working on that uh if it's to me it's up to me 100 james that's 100 guys thank you
so much for being here i appreciate your attentive uh uh uh being of here and uh i appreciate you
showing up and please put those comments in there please keep posting positive things throughout
the day if you want to come back and post on here please do so uh because it's gonna help you this
is for you this isn't for me it's 100 for you it's to wake you up a little bit because tomorrow
we're going to start working we're going to start working okay and you're going to need all this
to get through all the work we're going to do but on the other side is great success and great
happiness thanks so much for listening today guys i really appreciate you being here i apologize
for the hotel room behind me but it is what it is i'm still here love you guys so much thank
you for being here and i will see you tomorrow
